Third time lucky

Goldilocks found something just right on her third attempts, the porridge, the chair, the bed. For Goldilocks, and in general, it’s good practice to try, try again and not give up. My first two experiences with counselling were setbacks that served to make me...

Counselling – strike two

Baz rang me a week after our session to recommend another counsellor in his practice. I had asked him to recommend an alternative, I’m glad he followed through. I follow through myself and make an appointment. On the day I take a deep breath as I enter the...

First try at counselling

With some trepidation I turned up for my appointment for grief counselling. Our meeting didn’t go well from the outset. Baz had been counselling people in Mottsu’s workplace, since Mottsu’s death, he is familiar with the case. When we meet Baz gets...

The real me

An email I received today from an executive coach was signed with a quote at the bottom: “Seek out that particular mental attribute which makes you feel most deeply and vitally alive, along with which comes the inner voice which says, ‘This is the real...

Crossing the line

I did the run, finished and crossed the line. The course has a slight downhill gradient for most of the way, fabulous. The feelings that crossed the line with me were extraordinary, I was exultant with achievement and enjoyment, and at the same time depleted by...